Which comes first: Trusting the Message or the Messenger
Like the chicken and the egg questions, I wonder which needs to comes first. No matter how good the message if you don’t trust the messenger then you will have a hard time trusting the message. Also, once a messenger that you trust burns you with a bad message, your trust in that messenger will be damaged and maybe even lost.
If you have any thoughts on this please comment. This is something I have been thinking about lately. I look foward to all of the comments and maybe we can clarify this thought.
For me, it would depend on the message and what value it holds for me. Assuming the message is of value, I would go about validating the message from independent sources – even though the message may be from a trusted messenger. (unless the messenger is the originator of the message).
As anyone who has played “chienese wishpers” knows, a message can get distored during its travels. Hence, I would like to validate the message from sources as close to the originator or directly the originator if possible.
“Once bitten twice shy” – I guess that would apply to anyone. That is human tendency. It does become difficult to trust someone after being burnt. But, I would look at the message itself and evaluate what value the message has for me. If it is the truth that I am after, then I wouldn’t discount a message just because I do not trust the messenger.
Cheers